Hi all,
I can talk to you about LAW OF ATTRACTION, for days. Various methods, its mysterious yet obvious ways of working, the wonders associated with it, etc.
But none of that matters, without knowing few other concepts like;
- Divine Timing
- Belief
- State of mind (your vibrations)
And that is why, I am here today.
Let’s NOT GET TO WORK TODAY, shall we?
As the title suggest, wait, relax but mainly forget that you ever sat down for any of your manifestations, get busy – STOP WORRYING, and let the magic happen.
When you are doing everything in your control, doing all your moon meditations, intention setting, manifestations techniques, goal setting and even working towards it, in your Work, Personal life, by being present, doing you’re your inner work or self introspection, etc, and still constantly wondering, WHY ARE MY MANIFESTATION METHODS NOT WORKING?
That’s your cue, to drop everything and read the following words :
STOP WORRYING & STOP COMPLAINING THAT IT’S NOT WORKING, STOP GIVING INTO THAT SELF DOUBT!
It’s all coming to you. What you seek is seeking you – that’s a very common phrase used by people, these days. But it couldn’t be more true!
When you are constantly worrying about why things aren’t working, why you still feel down, why despite all efforts you still experience the worst, you put out in the world, that energy of doubt and disappointment. And we know, if we put that out in the universe, embody that, we will attract or reflect the same. And thus, we continue the same cycle.
Little Background:
I have a story to share here.
I was trying to manifest some students for my home tuition classes, when I switched Apartments. And it seemed like an impossible job. No one in my new apartment cared for tuitions, I tried personally meeting people, sticking pamplets on the gate, sending my ads in various society groups. However, nothing worked. And finally, when I found one student, he left after few days. I was trying to manifest the same, by goal setting during new moon rituals, being as if method (calling myself a teacher, to everyone.), believing that I am a good teacher and right students who would need this help of mine are right around the corner. But nothing worked. Finally one day, when I came back from College, I was about to fall asleep, when I was thinking about my financial problems at home, the intial response was fear: How would I manage the expenses of the coming month? And then, I told myself, rather a sudden belief struck me out of nowhere, that I will figure it out, I always do : Tuition or no tuition, I will figure it out, things will work out one way or another!
And Surprise!!!!!!!!!!!
I woke up with my mom telling me that there is a girl outside, who is inquiring for tuitions and wants to meet me. And I love teaching her now, she is someone who really needs my help, and I just love how the whole thing played out! I gave up on trying to control my finances, by wanting more students – maybe if teaching wasn’t for me, I would have found another way, however, it’s better than I imagined! It was indeed a Surprise! I gave up control, worry and fear – and I attracted my manifestion in no time!
WHAT SHOULD WE KNOW
- Give up control, it stems from a specific need or fear.
I always observed, that when my family or myself in some cases, gave up a certain rigidity in our wants and desires, we attract or receive the same in no time. For example, I wanted some students for my class for the want of extra income, however I didn’t allow any other way of receiving my income. Thus, I closed myself from countless other opportunities through which I could have received such an income. Moreover, I became rigid and specific, with the amount of money, types of students, timings, etc. The Control freak in me was working effortlessly. And we become that, when we are scared! There starts the cycle, if you are scared, your beliefs are affected, your vibrations shifts and you attract more things or situations which scares you. And due to that fear, you start doubting things more.
The only way to break that cycle is to take a step back : BREATHE, think about the instances in your life where you are holding the reins too tight. Let Go and trust. Fall back to that trust. That everything is working out, maybe not in the way you intended, but always better. If you start questioning this, remember everything you believe/question thereon (for example : this is bullshit, how can it even work), you are sending that signal out, and will receive a vibrational match to that, and that alone.
I understand it’s normal to question, if things are not playing out, when it’s only getting worse. Because you know what, we are Humans and it’s completely normal! Infact, I was questioning it today.
And in that situation, if somebody told me “ Just Trust the process “, I would probably throw a punch!
But that does not mean that I do not know it. It’s just simply that the situation is making us feel different emotions like : restlessness, impatience, anger, resentment, fear, etc. And it’s okay to feel that.
But DO NOT BECOME AN EMBODIMENT TO THAT.
Do not give it any more credence than required. One of the examples being : Do not go around telling people that you are broke, when you are trying to manifest money.
Do not dwell over it, take time, process it. Then simply get busy, work on things which would make you feel positive emotions : if you like being productive, or playing your favorite instrument, drawing, etc. I know it’s hard to get out of that zone and fear, what works for me is TEACHING THE STUDENTS or WRITING THESE BLOGS. I shift zones in no time then. Find something like that for you,
AND REMEMBER : do not dwell!
And when you get out of that state, the second thing to do would be to give up the control to fix every single detail of your wants.
Trust me when I say this, if you want to manifest a hut, and fixate on just a hut alone – You might not be able to receive the Castle that Universe planned on giving you!
So, stop controlling, once you have done the work, set the intention, relish the need for it to be exactly as you desired, because it will always be for better, even if it doesn’t seem that way in the moment.
2. Trust Divine timing
Another point, is to stop controlling “when and how” you will receive!
Everything you don’t yet have, could be for two reasons :
1) You are not a vibrational match for it, due to your inner self.
2) You are not ready to handle it, just yet. There’s some work to be done, for you to become worthy of your manifestations.
Trust the divine timing (that everything will be yours, when you are ready. And nothing is thrown your way, i.e your problems & situations, if you are not strong & capable of handling them, something I was reminded of today. And something you should hear, when you ask questions like why God/Universe did what it did to you, why you got such issues despite being so good or following every method to the T?.
And, apart from trusting the divine timing, an actionable step you can take today, right now : is to start or continue your INNER WORK.
Some introspection, will let you know, what are some blockages in your beliefs, attitudes, inner self, self talks, etc, are blocking your manifestations.
Sometimes, your desires are right outside the door, ringing the bell, however your inner noise makes it impossible to hear that.
For example : When I gave up my control, to get a student asap, and resigned to my belief that everything will work out, maybe or maybe not in the way I want, I found a student, LITERALLY WITHOUT PUTTING ANY EFFORT! I just had to clear my head space, and make my self open to all possibilities.
3. Limiting beliefs
Maybe you are trusting the Universe, you are working on your manifestation techniques, you are working on your inner self, but still see no result. It could be again, for two reasons :
1) You do not match it’s vibration just yet.
2) There is a karmic clearance being done, or a limiting belief at play.
I already spoke about raising your vibration in the previous blog, do check that out.
Another reason could be Karmic connections or effects and limiting beliefs. No, they are not the same. However, there are certain limiting beliefs that you do carry from either your ancestors or just your past ( even past lives if you believe in that). I have a whole blog coming on this topic, stay tuned.
The actionable step here, would be the same, INNER WORK. In addition to this, if you feel you are doing everything right, but you attract just the bad. DO not stop doing the good. You reep what you sow. Once the karmic cycle is over, maybe in days, months or years – you will have only this time to rely on. Thereby, do not continue the cycle of bad days, by giving up on good now.
I am being a bit vague here, because this topic needs a whole another blog for it. And do not get thrown off or offended by the words “good” and “bad”, I used above, as I will explain the same in detail later.
I know it’s difficult when everything feels like it’s falling apart, but take this blog as your sign, To STOP WORRYING & know that your MANIFESTATIONS ARE ON THEIR WAY!!
Relax, you’ve got this!
Thankyou so much for reading, I wish that all your wants, desires and manifestations meet you soon!